I believe that any couple that has been married 30 years or more (like us) can identify somewhere with Jones and Streep's portrayals. I found myself appreciating the counseling skills of the Steve Carrell character who asks insightful and timely questions that gets them talking and listening to each other again. The story feels even handed in dealing with the typical male and female issues/concerns within a marriage. Neither partner is the "bad" guy. While both have contributed to the decline of the relationship, mostly through fear and distraction, Meryl Streep's character is the first to become desperate enough to arrange for a intensive marriage retreat at $4000.
This was more than a movie to me. I came away inspired to make the next years with Nadine better than ever. After the initial foundational years, the season in pastoral ministry, and the raising of four kids to adulthood, I am ready to build the next good thing together whatever that appears to be.
Be aware that the film straightforwardly addresses very intimate aspects of marriage, though I don't believe that it crossed the line into the crude. I felt connected to the other fifty people watching it around us but there were moments when we glanced around to make sure no one we knew was in the theater with us!
If you haven't already seen it, you'll have to wait for the DVD or its last go round in the .99 theaters.